Being over 50 or 60 while being overly (i.e., average, normally) sexual and healthy has to be planned while you are in your 20s, 30s, and 40s.
If you do that you will naturally separate yourself not only from others in your age group but also from those who are far younger or older than you. You will also strengthen your ties with a higher self.
Intentionally avoid anything less.
But don’t do it for that. Do it for you.
Do it for your loved ones.
Being mentally, spiritually, and physically healthy for you and your loved ones will be noticed and inspire random people to say that they are inspired by you.
Your lover and friends will also respect you more or the same when such is expected of you. Being and doing good (mentally, spiritually, and physically) as best as you can should surprise no one in your circled pyramid. It’s just what you do. It’s just what our ancestors and nature expects of you.
But don’t just do it for those communal and other healthy reasons.
Do it also to raise or maintain your level of respect for you and the GODLY in you.