Africula explained to the Detroit women that they could have a great sexual relationship with a man but that humane satisfaction was no guarantee. A far better offer for a great relationship was in a platonic one, a friendship that even has the BF and GF experience without the sex. You’ll both want the sex, though, because of the elevated mental connections and the warming experience of safety, honesty, and clarity from the sensible conclusions that flow from such humane and Spiritually-linked connections, but don’t do it. Keep the pants up and the skirt down. Your hands will already be full dealing with the jealous people who see an opportunity to slip in once they learn you two aren’t fucking but who still behave better and are more fulfilled than many of the people who are.
Your smiles will demonize them.
Your love will inspire thieves.
However, most of the general public will wish you well.